"It is your attitude, not aptitude, that determines your altitude."
[Zig Ziglar]

             Changer en Français

MiSSing Sign :
dot  Home
dot  Presentation
dot  Email me
dot  GuestBook (82)
dot  Write in the GuestBook
dot  Events (13)
dot  Links (6)

Drawings :
dot  All
dot  Shaman
dot  Cubism
dot  The dress
dot  New York City
dot  Words of Songs
dot  Colored hairs
dot  Pencil drawings
dot  Warrior of the Light
dot  Androgyne

Psychology:
  Not easy being a boy
  Skirting Men
  "Les garçonnes"
  False ideas
  Estimates itself
  Builders of culture
  To dare the Skirt
  Our clothes speak to us
  Reflexions about the Skirt

Fashion Articles:
  Tee-Shirt
  Gothic culture
  The Golden Mean
  Proportion of Skirt
  Skirt's councils
  Skirt's lexicon
  Boot's lexicon
  Androgyny and Fashion

Members :
  Members List
  The Wall
dot  Register as Member (free)

POWERFUL ANDROGYNE: Dared superposition of a dress in fabric on an armour hauls. This combinaison expresses the power of the androgyne on the bipolar identity. Gabrielle Lys. July 11, 2008.
POWERFUL ANDROGYNE:
Dared superposition of a dress in fabric on an armour hauls. This combinaison expresses the power of the androgyne on the bipolar identity.
Gabrielle Lys. July 11, 2008.


THE COURTIER: The courtier put his more beautiful ornament. But is this to court or to be courted ?  Wrap and silk coat. Leather boots and hat. Style half of the 18th century re-examined and corrected. Gabrielle Lys. May 14, 2008.
THE COURTIER:
The courtier put his more beautiful ornament. But is this to court or to be courted ?

Wrap and silk coat. Leather boots and hat. Style half of the 18th century re-examined and corrected.
Gabrielle Lys.
May 14, 2008.


The train's driver: He connects Adelaide to Darwin by Alice Springs. 47 hours of voyage, 2 nights on board and 2979 km through Outback.... Gabrielle Lys September 2006.
The train's driver:
He connects Adelaide to Darwin by Alice Springs. 47 hours of voyage, 2 nights on board and 2979 km through Outback.... Gabrielle Lys September 2006.


AND ME I DANCE It is as a light Which slips into the black It is already the border The end of the corridor And me I dance I lost the memory [It is always a mystery - Pierre Rapsat]  Dress with great width worked in small superimposed wheels. Adjusted and round cut off blouse. Gabrielle Lys. February 3, 2008.
AND ME I DANCE
"It is as a light
Which slips into the black
It is already the border
The end of the corridor
And me I dance
I lost the memory"
[It is always a mystery - Pierre Rapsat]

Dress with great width worked in small superimposed wheels. Adjusted and round cut off blouse.
Gabrielle Lys. February 3, 2008.



To dare the skirt, it is to develop a beautiful interiority.

"If I differ from you, far from injuring you, I increase you." [ Saint-Exupéry ]

dot  I found this very beautiful interview of Saverio Tomasella which I publish here with the agreement of the author. It can be useful to each one among you who write to me not to dare the skirt.
Gabrielle Lys
Sources :
Interview of Saverio Tomasella. Psychoanalyst and author "to make peace with oneself" - (Eyrolles edition)


dot  Which difficulties meet people who must assume a "difference"?

The fields of the differences is infinite. One can be too small, too large, too thin, too large. But also eccentric, marginal, night-bird, or to like to wear the skirt... From the point of view of the psychological mechanisms, one can say that the child who arrives at the world has a need inconcient to be recognized by his environment. Subjected to the social standards of a group (his family, his neighbors, the school), he will do everything unconsciously, to adhere to the values of this group.


dot  What happen if a human being is discovered artist in a family where they hate that, or is manual in a intellectual family ?

he will not feel with the height of this request of harmonization and will live a conflict. From there, two scénarii are possible. Maybe, he meets a person (a grandmother, a friend, a teacher...) who carries it, which say to him "would be what you are". Then there, it is practically gained. In spite of the mockeries or comments, he will be able to be based on this word of the other. Maybe, he does not meet a support...


dot  But what does it occur if, the most frequent case, he does not cross this support on his road?

A conflict between the ideal of the group and his reality (what he is able to bring) will settle in him. This conflict causes suffering. While growing, this faintness can evolve in two manners. Either it will push him to saying "Dash it!", to become a little rebellious or creative. we find a lot of people engaged in this category: trade unionists, artists, politicians. Maybe, he will induce a fold on oneself which can lead to despair or depression...


dot  Are there common springs to the people who voluntarily choose a certain marginality?

We observe recurring diagrams. In closing families (rigid vestimentary, professional, of behavior codes), children feel with narrow, not recognized. Some will react by making a marginal choice. All rather than to conform to the family model. They will be tramp rather than insurance agent, travelling acrobat rather than doctor, or completely eccentric rather than assembled collet. It is a choice of survival which can save them and become an asset. But contrary, others turn over against them the cruelty of the system. Confronted with a devaluing language, they will become this least that nothing to not repudiate the system. The "difference" is then in the self-destruction or the negation of oneself. Painful.


dot  Can Prear which process the difference become a richness?

In a general way, crossed of suffering, small or large, makes mature, makes more human. Different, I must face to mockeries, with the rejection, with the comments... My heart is obliged to be reinforced. I will more quickly become myself rather than on the others. It is a favorable ground to the emergence of a very beautiful interiority which, at the adulthood, will hatch. In the form of a particularly subtle way to like the life, or to like the others, or to approach work, the private life or to express an art; a many painters, singers, novelists result from this vein. It is very important to know that the difference is a chance. The pain which results from this makes it possible to better reach the bottom of its heart.


dot  Which is the council to give to except standards people so that they live their marginality as well as possible?

Seek with deepest of you than there is of more human and express it humanly. The others will be humanized with your contact. Then the difference does not seem one obstacle any more. There is not difference that cannot be assumed and respected. Means of arriving there? That depends on the way of life but impossible to make this course alone. The human being needs another human being to structure himself. This other can be a friend, a love, a person of resource, a spiritual step. Or a therapeutist.


The five rules of an accomplished interiority:

1) To demolish glance of the others.

2) To give value to its own feelings ("what I feel, it is valid, even if it is not in conformity")

3) To transform its resentments into personal thoughts (if I smell myself badly, to manage to express it in "I" rather than to leave himself with "my colleague is bitch")

4) To touch his own loneliness ("I cannot be well with the others if I do not accept my loneliness")

5) To enter into contact with different people ("more I riches my pallet, more I accept my difference")



The site is a success thanks to you all. Thank you for your expressions of sympathy in the golden book and ideological support of members. Thank you also with those which write personal messages to me. They suit me right to the heart and push me to advance always further.
Gabrielle Lys

RECOGNIZED BEING: There is nothing to understand And that passes the intruder Who will be not able to await Because I am only to hear them silences and when I tremble Me, I am your different If we were not from here We would be the infinite one [Tu es mon autre - Lara Fabian]  The recognized being wears thigh boots  of Gabrielle Lys and a dress wallet out of wool with short sleeves and bordered in bottom by silk muslin of Saris. Gabrielle Lys November 13th, 2007.
RECOGNIZED BEING:
"There is nothing to understand
And that passes the intruder
Who will be not able to await
Because I am only to hear them
silences and when I tremble
Me, I am your different
If we were not from here
We would be the infinite one"
[Tu es mon autre - Lara Fabian]

The recognized being wears thigh boots of Gabrielle Lys and a dress wallet out of wool with short sleeves and bordered in bottom by silk muslin of Saris. Gabrielle Lys
November 13th, 2007.


CHAMELEON DRESS: I defy the chance. In this world which has neither tail nor head I do not make of it that at my head. I do not admit that my resolutions are threatened. I am chameleon... [Sans contrefaon - Mylne Farmer]  Spring dress chameleon. Gabrielle Lys. April 23th 2008.
CHAMELEON DRESS:
"I defy the chance.
In this world which has
neither tail nor head
I do not make of it that at my head.
I do not admit that
my resolutions are threatened.
I am chameleon..."
[Sans contrefaon - Mylne Farmer]

Spring dress "chameleon".
Gabrielle Lys. April 23th 2008.


Last statistics :
dot  192 visits today
dot  151 visits today
dot  41 visits today
dot  6726 visits by day max
dot  578974 visits
dot  558 Supporters  57  501
dot  82 Messages
dot  180 Drawings

Last member
20/07/2019 - 15h39
Kay Kalliopi
- Brussels - Belgium -
I am so happy to find this group!
[Members list] (free)

Last member
09/05/2019 - 15h26
Laurent
- Nantes - France -
J'aime porter certaines jupes et y suis très attiré. Mais je n'ose pas sortir ainsi
[Supporters List] (free)

Last msg of GuestBook :
Samuelf Morales - Medellin - Colombia - - added 04/05/2019.
El pantalón fue utilizado para DISCRIMINAR, abusar y humillar a la mujer.
Las FALDAS; y los VESTIDOS CON FALDA, para los varones; SON UNA GRAN NECESIDAD; por salud, por respeto y por comodidad.
Por tradición y desde siempre los hombres se habían vestido con faldas, solo hace 500 años que nos obligaron a usar el horroroso e incomodo pantalón.
Ademas con el uso del pantalón el hombre ha terminado orinando de pie lo cual es totalmente antinatural. Las Faldas y los vestidos con faldas para los hombres son suprema-mente SALUDABLES, CÓMODOS Y CONFORTABLES.
Por salud y comodidad mejor usar FALDAS O VESTIDOS CON FALDA PARA HOMBRE .
Hay una GRAN NECESIDAD POR ATENDER entre la población masculina; y esta muy relacionada con la SALUD; y la calidad de vida de los varones;
Las faldas para los varones son una gran NECESIDAD; por salud, por respeto y por comodidad.

El pantalón es la prenda menos adecuada para un hombre; el calzoncillo bóxer, hace las veces de férula en los genitales, (propiciando mal funcionamiento, y discapacidades); el calzoncillo bóxer mantiene los genitales inmovilizados ; magullados y machacados; la costura central del pantalón maltrata, magulla e incomoda todo el tiempo los genitales; la correa o cinturón hace las veces de torniquete, y obliga al corazón a bombear la sangre con mayor esfuerzo, (para vencer la contracción que hace el torniquete), y por mala irrigacion sanguínea afecta: el aparato digestivo, el sistema urinario, el aparato reproductor. Ademas con el uso del pantalón el hombre ha terminado orinando de pie lo cual es totalmente antinatural. Las Faldas y los vestidos con faldas para los hombres son suprema-mente SALUDABLES, CÓMODOS Y CONFORTABLES. El pantalón, el calzoncillo ajustado, la costura central del pantalón, y la correa o cinturón, están promoviendo las enfermedades modernas de los hombres: IMPOTENCIA, ESTERILIDAD, PROBLEMAS DE LA PRÓSTATA Y POSIBLEMENTE CÁNCER DEL TESTÍCULO.
Ninguna parte del cuerpo del varón se magulla, ni se machaca; ni se maltrata tanto como los genitales.

Las faldas y vestidos con falda para los hombres no deben ir con volantes, boleros, encajes, moñitos; y/o adornos; o estampados típicamente femeninos; pero si se pueden elaborar unas muy buenas faldas y vestidos con falda para los hombres; y que se diferencien de las prendas femeninas.


El tiro; ( que es la costura que une las piernas; tira, por delante; o por detrás; y por eso tiene que sacarlo de entre las nalgas); el horroroso e incómodo pantalón; maltrata; magulla; machaca; lacera, e incomoda todo el tiempo los genitales. Las personas se acostumbran a vivir con la incomodidad; como cuando un zapato nuevo les hace salir callos, o ampollas en los pies.
Por Anatomía el pantalón sería más afín para la mujer, que para los hombres; lo más adecuado; SALUDABLE; DECENTE; ERGONÓMICO; PRACTICO; y FUNCIONAL, para vestirse un hombre es una FALDA al estilo escocés; o UN VESTIDO CON FALDAS.
La falda circular y semicircular para hombre; es lo mas practico y fácil de elaborar; pues no lleva cierre o cremallera en la pretina


[Add a message]


© This website is protected by copyright, all rights reserved - MissingSign - Gabrielle Lys - 2004 - 2019.
Any reproduction and/or redistribution of content by any means whatsoever is subject to specific authorization of its author.
SABAM number 00768391789 ©


192 V.